Sunday, March 7, 2010

The reasons

Sighs... I couldn't find any reasons for myself to continue to talk. Candidly, I don't know what should I say to you.

First, I feel it's bore and no other topics to talk with you.
Second, I lazy to talk.
Third, I don't want to talk with you.
Fourth, I always asked myself why should I??

Well, I really couldn't find any reasons to talk with you anymore, no topics, just answering your lame questions??

Anyway, these few days I'll busy on my stuff, my days are full. Therefore, I can't even talk nonsenses so much with you.

What's a cool family

I'd never know my family including me could so cool like yesterday.

First, let's me talk about I drove car with my brother in law accompanied me at about 8.00p.m. There were two police cars and two police motors went on patrol the companies road, yeah, I drove at there, lol. Beside, I just tried to don't meet them and they didn't care about me also, haha~ 9.15p.m, I guessed my brother in law was bored already and me too as I rounded many times there, however, there was large. Great, then, I called my 2nd sister, "Where are you guys?"

My brother in law fetched me to meet my family. Reaching there, I was just sitting for awhile my family wiggling that the waiters were too over. Normally, waiters will come to ask what you want to order, but they didn't, then it was fine. My 2nd sister called them for order, but they didn't even look at us, and so they didn't come. My family were angry as they waited too long time and everyone of them were hungry also. They decided to finish the teh, then gonna leave.

One lady came to ask me what I wanted to drink. Uh, my dad answered, " Needn't. We want to leave soon." The lady, "Huh??...." She was shocked and quickly came nearest, asking somebody to order for us.

But when my dad heard it, he straightly put down his drink and walked to direction of our car. Then, my mum and younger sister did follow also, they all looked strict and angry, haha~ I wanted to laugh, but I didn't. I stood up to wait for my 2nd sister and brother drank their teh. The lady, "What you want to order?" Yeah, she asked us again, just three of us, idiot!! Somehow, 2nd sister and brother heard so, they didn't have the mood to continue their teh. After that, they purposely put their cups on table with produced two big sound, "boom". Yeah, when I heard these two "boom", I knew they wanted to leave also. Hence, I glared on the lady, walking away. Both of them glared on the lady too and walked away like I did. LOL.

Honestly, I wanted to laugh at that moment my dad rejected her; I wanted to laugh when I saw dad, mum and younger sister were so serious this time; I wanted to laugh when 2nd sister and brother acted so; I wanted to laugh when I saw her reactions, but somehow I couldn't!!! Actually, I wasn't purposely wanted to glare her, I only wanted to see her reactions on face, and so I looked at her without any smiles. Anyway, I feel the situation was cool.

叛逆-【給他的叛逆】

世界上沒有人可以100%跟某人思想一樣,就算是自己的親人。人與人相處需要的是忍讓。有時候不能達成一定的共識,可是也必須嘗試接受別人的想法。而不是執著于自己,似乎這世界只有你是活。

要別人尊重你,就必須向學會尊重別人。要別人聽你說的同時也必須聽別人說,因別人也想要你聽他說。而不是,只有你在說,似乎只有你是對的,錯的全是對方。

宗教這東西,是寧可信其有。尊重自己的宗教,尊重自己的傳統。你要當一個沒有宗教信仰的人,就等你幾年以后自立再說!有些事,你忘了,那不知是件好事還是件壞事?!

尊重·孝順自己的父母是每個子女該做的。你沒得選擇你要怎樣的父母,但畢竟他們生你養你,嘗試給你最好的,再怎么說他們并沒有把你丟棄。你卻因他們的缺點而討厭他們,難道你就沒缺點?你是個十全十美的人?你可以因他們缺點而討厭·不愛他們,那么你有沒有想過他們曾因你的缺點而討厭甚至放棄你嗎?

雖然就算是長輩也會有做錯的時候,但你能說什么嗎?他們的觀念就是我們不能教訓他們。是啊,你能嗎?憑什么?既然我們沒拿資格教訓他們,就用別的方式告訴他們錯了。你大可以等他們心情好時好好的告訴他們,而不是用罵的。

別老是以自我為中心,這世界不是你一個人有感覺·感情;不是你一人想要別人了解你;不是你一人可以要求別人聽你的。你可否站在別人的角度替別人想?你是否想過他們的感受呢?對,你不是一個父母,你不會理解他們,但也需要嘗試的站在他們的角度為他們想呀!

人與人相處,看似簡單,但其實它并不容易。我們唯一能做的是嘗試了解對方·忍讓和尊重對方。